Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.

<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.  Dad shouts, mum dies, or vice versa – the actual event is not material, the context is all.  Our child within has no physical defence, so they devise a mental one – “this isn’t happening to me”. </span><br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> </div> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkjJNnfoKR0Nh6AyzXB6c6-Me7N1crw0lw_kMd5Ta5RJVGjEZOlju1qXyiU9V9d4ozeGOylZi4-b9qoP4oP80G97hRgLh27GBnkLeRU8_9Y2Tl4ckGfqZkqRtHwRInkyqN1dq0e89X/s1600/1-hope.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkjJNnfoKR0Nh6AyzXB6c6-Me7N1crw0lw_kMd5Ta5RJVGjEZOlju1qXyiU9V9d4ozeGOylZi4-b9qoP4oP80G97hRgLh27GBnkLeRU8_9Y2Tl4ckGfqZkqRtHwRInkyqN1dq0e89X/s200/1-hope.jpg" width="190" /></a></div> Our Childs<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> survival strategies get prolonged into adulthood, and become  locked inside our Child Within where the mental defence has ceases to work ,  with the Ten Stages trustworthy emotional support, the child withins intuitional  thinking can be restored.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> our</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> thought processes can be really unclogged and we re-program ourselves?  Our gummed up thought processes disappear as we make contact with others, because the child within ‘thinks’ the trauma is still ‘alive’ in our head we are constantly looking for a solution that has ceased to work and is irrelevant to our adult reality.  The Stages can provide us with adequate trustworthy emotional support,  you will gradually gently persuade the child within that, the traumatic,</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;">“this isn’t happening to me”</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Georgia, 'Bitstream Charter', serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 24px;"> it’s over?  When this happens and we can access the child within.  We can start to unravel by doing the stages the traumas that ceased long ago – a fact that most adults simply don’t believe – we gradually catch up with our reality?  </span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; 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Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.

 Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.  Dad shouts, mum dies, or vice versa – the actual ...

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