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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life, and that this  reason – all of my unresolved child...
  • We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life
  • We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life
  • We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life
  • We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life
  • We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life
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We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life

We admit that we do have a child within that can heal and regain control over our life, and that this  reason – all of my unresolved childhood traumas! – that my life has become so disturbed and dysf…

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18 Dec 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer abound. Knights, dragons, romance novels- getting high from fantasy becomes habit.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy. Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer abound....
Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer abound. Knights, dragons, romance novels- getting high from fantasy becomes habit.
Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer abound. Knights, dragons, romance novels- getting high from fantasy becomes habit.

We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy. Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer abound. Knights, dragons, romance novels- getting high from fantasy …

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14 Dec 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy. Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer...
  • We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy
  • We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy
  • We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy
  • We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy
  • We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy
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We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy

We compensated for lack of nurturing as a child by immersing ourselves in fantasy. Fantasies of being rescued or being the rescuer abound. Knights, dragons, romance novels- getting high from fantasy …

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10 Jun 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
The cry we hear from deep in our hearts, comes from the wounded child within. Healing this inner child’s pain will transform negative emot...
In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma.
In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We have all had times of difficulty as children and many of us have experienced trauma.

The cry we hear from deep in our hearts, comes from the wounded child within. Healing this inner child’s pain will transform negative emotions.In each of us, there is a young, suffering child. We hav…

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08 Jun 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.
Author: Fraser Trevor
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 Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.  Dad shouts, mum dies, or vice versa – the actual ...
  • Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.
  • Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.
  • Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.
  • Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.
  • Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.
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Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.

 Our child within has had to learn to cope with erratic parenting or no parenting at all.  Dad shouts, mum dies, or vice versa – the actual event is not material, the context is all.  Our child within…

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06 Jun 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Recovery Wild Children are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
Recovery Wild Children are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation. Several months ago we started  to wonder if the defences we commo...
Recovery Wild Children are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation.
Recovery Wild Children are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation.

Recovery Wild Children are addicts. We are addicted to dissociation. Several months ago we started  to wonder if the defences we commonly use could possibly be termed addiction. We knew they were hab…

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03 Jun 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Are you living your life reacting to old wounds from your childhood?
Author: Fraser Trevor
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Are you living your life reacting to old wounds from your childhood?   Old wounds that keep you telling yourself that you are never goo...
Are you living your life reacting to old wounds from your childhood?
Are you living your life reacting to old wounds from your childhood?

Are you living your life reacting to old wounds from your childhood?   Old wounds that keep you telling yourself that you are never good enough, smart enough, worthy enough, beautiful enough, or perf…

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31 May 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness. We were traumatised by our parents abandoning us. We...
  • The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness.
  • The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness.
  • The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness.
  • The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness.
  • The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness.
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The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness.

The deepest core feelings of the child within are grief, toxic shame and loneliness. We were traumatised by our parents abandoning us. We feel we are bad, as if we’re contaminated, and that shame lea…

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31 May 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: A denied, wounded and rage-filled child within runs our lives. As a result, we cannot act in our best interests. We are not sustainable in our recovery.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
 We see how a few of us struggle with great diligence and anguish to heal the traumas we carry.  We also see that most of us don’t, and re...
  • A denied, wounded and rage-filled child within runs our lives. As a result, we cannot act in our best interests. We are not sustainable in our recovery.
  • A denied, wounded and rage-filled child within runs our lives. As a result, we cannot act in our best interests. We are not sustainable in our recovery.
  • A denied, wounded and rage-filled child within runs our lives. As a result, we cannot act in our best interests. We are not sustainable in our recovery.
  • A denied, wounded and rage-filled child within runs our lives. As a result, we cannot act in our best interests. We are not sustainable in our recovery.
  • A denied, wounded and rage-filled child within runs our lives. As a result, we cannot act in our best interests. We are not sustainable in our recovery.
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A denied, wounded and rage-filled child within runs our lives. As a result, we cannot act in our best interests. We are not sustainable in our recovery.

 We see how a few of us struggle with great diligence and anguish to heal the traumas we carry.  We also see that most of us don’t, and remain destructive toward ourselves and the world around us.  I…

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31 May 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally. Onto these angels and devils the norm projects s...
  • Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally.
  • Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally.
  • Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally.
  • Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally.
  • Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally.
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Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally.

Rescues do not work: Collectively, We seek saviours and enemies of all sorts—externally. Onto these angels and devils the norm projects split-off dreams of fulfilment and rescue—and revenge.  We alw…

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31 May 2015
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Fraser Trevor Fraser Trevor Author
Title: The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.
Author: Fraser Trevor
Rating 5 of 5 Des:
The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.  Non-reflective, so...
  • The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.
  • The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.
  • The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.
  • The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.
  • The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.
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The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.

The darker, unacknowledged purpose of being married with children is to create a vehicle for passing on denied trauma.  Non-reflective, socially sanctioned family life with all the rigours of childre…

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31 May 2015
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